Good Vibrations
Last night, Sam showed up to my apartment with flowers and Q-tips. Why Q-tips? He noticed that my roommate and I ran out of cotton swabs and was thoughtful enough to buy us a new pack. Ah, it’s the little things that count.
When he came inside Sam rushed me into the bedroom with him. I thought he was going to tell me good gossip. Being boricua, of course I love me some chisme! Or, maybe he had something else in mind? Wink, wink.
Instead, he took out a brown paper bag and eagerly revealed a red vibrator. I erupted in laughter.
“What? You don’t like it?” Sam asked with concern.
I looked at the cheap, plastic vibrator and wrinkled my nose. “Um, if you want to get me a present like this I’d like it to be of high-quality,” I explained. “This is totally a ghetto vibrator!”
“Oh whatever, I got it as a joke,” he sniffed.
“Yeah right! You say that now but you really wanted me to use it!” I replied. Then I held the vibrator in my hand and exploded in a fit of giggles. The packaging had dust on it and the batteries were from an unknown company. Hmm, did Sam pick up this vibrator at a dollar store?
“Let’s go to Toys in Babeland or Kiki De Montparnasse,” I suggested to him.
“Sure, whatever,” he replied in his thick, New York accent.
I’m still laughing over the vibrator but was I too harsh with him? It’s the thought that counts, right? And I’m lucky to date a dude who’s adventurous and willing to give me a sex toy. Have you mujeres ever have a problema with a sex toy too? Got any favorites or suggestions?
Un abrazo fuerte,
Lex
lol Hey chica at least he isn’t a prude and against toys in bed. That would be worse. I must admitt I have yet to try a vibrator with my boy, but we are working up to it.
we love using the ring, Its fun and feels great for both of us.
I was dating a guy who tried to make his own sensual body oil. Don’t even ask how he was trying to make it, but he tried to say it was more romantic b/c it was personal. When I knew it was because he was cheap! It was 7 kinds of wrong!!
Giiirrrrlllll….I like Sam! Haha!
My beau and I have beads, vibrators, and oils. The vibrators stimulate and makes your O ten times better. But nah you weren’t crude; I agree with you about the toys being top of the line b/c the cheap one may spark and leave you both burning. No Pun Intended.
I haven’t tried too many things so I really couldnt give you advice on whats good out there, but try attending a Sex Party thats where I get all my goodies.
Your last paragraph is the answer. It’s the thought that counts. He’s just trying to show you his adventurous side. Just wash the damn thing and get it on already!
It is the thought that counts but you know how sensitive guys are, you didn’t have to laugh at him so badly. The other comments are right though at least he is willing to experiment. I am wondering if that was his first time doing anything like that since the toy sounded so jankie. Anyway good for (or at least what seems to me) going out of his comfort zone and experimenting. It sounds like you met up w/ a good guy. Congrats.
Hey everyone…yeah I def. have a good guy in my life. I’m very lucky. And he puts up with my immaturity! Kamren—I can’t use the ghetto vibe! I’m going to get a nice one like the rabbit. Also, I like Laura’s idea of using a ring too. I’ll give you chicas a sex toy update soon!!!!