Comments on: The Dirty Crush http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/ Latina Magazine's blog for Fashion & Beauty Tips, Entertainment News and More Mon, 01 Dec 2008 20:54:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Megan http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4875 Megan Tue, 22 Jul 2008 09:19:40 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4875 Hahahaha nah like everyone's said its totally normal. My friends and I say "You're not bisexual really, you're just 'bicurious'." Hahahaha nah like everyone’s said its totally normal. My friends and I say “You’re not bisexual really, you’re just ‘bicurious’.”

]]> By: Crystal http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4333 Crystal Wed, 25 Jun 2008 21:03:15 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4333 I think its natural to feel that way. I dont believe it means you bisexual. I think its natural to feel that way. I dont believe it means you bisexual.

]]> By: raquel http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4144 raquel Sun, 15 Jun 2008 23:04:47 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4144 Gender shouldn't be matter if you feel a deep connection with the person thats all that counts. I think your should explore it. Gender shouldn’t be matter if you feel a deep connection with the person thats all that counts. I think your should explore it.

]]> By: Meshell222 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4105 Meshell222 Fri, 13 Jun 2008 13:29:03 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4105 Being surrounded by women who have no inhibitions, no judgment, and who admire you for who you are inspire other women. Being in an environment of acceptance, strength and beauty is empowering and inviting. I too have been surrounded by women who are lesbian and bisexual and have found a strong attraction to them. I once felt love and a strong attraction to one of my best friends who is bisexual and was convinced that I was in love with her and I felt a bit confused about my own sexuality. Never the less we became best friends almost sisters and each and every single time I hang-out with her I feel magic, love, inspiration and peace. Society feels threatened by large groups of women hanging out especially if their sexuality is other than "Straight". But who cares what society thinks, its all about YOU. If you feel GOOD then enjoy it. Don't feel bad or "Dirty" its a natural attraction and you should explore your feelings about this. You never know, this person might become and important friend or role model in your life. Meshell Being surrounded by women who have no inhibitions, no judgment, and who admire you for who you are inspire other women. Being in an environment of acceptance, strength and beauty is empowering and inviting. I too have been surrounded by women who are lesbian and bisexual and have found a strong attraction to them. I once felt love and a strong attraction to one of my best friends who is bisexual and was convinced that I was in love with her and I felt a bit confused about my own sexuality. Never the less we became best friends almost sisters and each and every single time I hang-out with her I feel magic, love, inspiration and peace. Society feels threatened by large groups of women hanging out especially if their sexuality is other than “Straight”. But who cares what society thinks, its all about YOU. If you feel GOOD then enjoy it. Don’t feel bad or “Dirty” its a natural attraction and you should explore your feelings about this. You never know, this person might become and important friend or role model in your life.

Meshell

]]> By: REYNA LATINA http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4081 REYNA LATINA Thu, 12 Jun 2008 03:56:59 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4081 NOPE NEVER HAD A GURL CRUSH BUT I THINK U SHOULD EXPLORE THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT UR JUST CURIOUS AND REMEMBER YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE AND PLUS IM SURE ALL WOMEN ALWAYS GIVE MEN NUMEROUS CHANCES SO IF U HAD A GREAT TIME WITH A GURL GOOD FOR YOU :) NOPE NEVER HAD A GURL CRUSH BUT I THINK U SHOULD EXPLORE THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT UR JUST CURIOUS AND REMEMBER YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE AND PLUS IM SURE ALL WOMEN ALWAYS GIVE MEN NUMEROUS CHANCES SO IF U HAD A GREAT TIME WITH A GURL GOOD FOR YOU :)

]]> By: Vern http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4077 Vern Wed, 11 Jun 2008 19:57:14 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4077 Alexis, I do not think that you are bisexual, but merely had a girl crush. You enjoyed her company without all the sexual tension that sometimes comes immediately with hanging out with guys. I think you were able to let your guard down and just enjoy the night without having to worry about where things my lead. You look amazing in your photo... Alexis,

I do not think that you are bisexual, but merely had a girl crush. You enjoyed her company without all the sexual tension that sometimes comes immediately with hanging out with guys. I think you were able to let your guard down and just enjoy the night without having to worry about where things my lead. You look amazing in your photo…

]]> By: Laura http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4075 Laura Wed, 11 Jun 2008 16:56:36 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4075 I see sexuality as a spectrum. there is no one or the other. I have had my fair share of girl crushes and yes in my wilder college days have kissed a girl or 2. I don't think that makes me Bisexual. I think I am in touch with my sexuality and can appreciate beauty. Don't think of it as "Dirty Crush" how can it when all women are beautiful. Just go for whatever feels natural to you. I see sexuality as a spectrum. there is no one or the other. I have had my fair share of girl crushes and yes in my wilder college days have kissed a girl or 2. I don’t think that makes me Bisexual. I think I am in touch with my sexuality and can appreciate beauty. Don’t think of it as “Dirty Crush” how can it when all women are beautiful. Just go for whatever feels natural to you.

]]> By: SANLETTY78 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4061 SANLETTY78 Tue, 10 Jun 2008 21:35:21 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4061 I agree with the other chicas. It's not about the sex or gender but about the personality. If you feel like persuing a relationship or exploring than go for it. You can't knock it until you try it. I agree with the other chicas. It’s not about the sex or gender but about the personality. If you feel like persuing a relationship or exploring than go for it. You can’t knock it until you try it.

]]> By: Kamren http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4058 Kamren Tue, 10 Jun 2008 18:17:06 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4058 I agree with Lauren. I read your blog for inspiration when writing my own. I'm really feelin' the content and it's like we're living parallel lives sometimes. I've also been in a few situations where I was strongly attracted to intelligent, strong, humble and beautiful women, which lead to me questioning my sexuality. I've been intimate with a woman once, but never identify myself as bisexual. It's really weird and probably a result of growing up with a family that tolerated many things except homosexuality. Sometimes I feel like I'm in denial, but I also consider myself in touch with who I am and my attraction to women is best kept inside. It's like my own little fantasy life that can never be played out and I'm fine with it as long as I live it out in my head. Just last month, I ran into local O.G. rapper Medusa at a club. I've met her a couple times before when covering shows, but this time she was flirting with me and I was feeling her. When we realized we were both Pisces, the attraction grew even deeper and before I knew it, she was asking me to kick it sometime. I instantly came back to reality: I'm in a very serious relationship with a man I love and cheating is cheating. I told her this and she was sweet/open enough to not be mad at it. She still shoots me texts when she has a show and I still fantasize about being intimate with a woman... Thanks for bringing out many women's secrets, Lex. I agree with Lauren. I read your blog for inspiration when writing my own. I’m really feelin’ the content and it’s like we’re living parallel lives sometimes. I’ve also been in a few situations where I was strongly attracted to intelligent, strong, humble and beautiful women, which lead to me questioning my sexuality. I’ve been intimate with a woman once, but never identify myself as bisexual. It’s really weird and probably a result of growing up with a family that tolerated many things except homosexuality. Sometimes I feel like I’m in denial, but I also consider myself in touch with who I am and my attraction to women is best kept inside. It’s like my own little fantasy life that can never be played out and I’m fine with it as long as I live it out in my head.

Just last month, I ran into local O.G. rapper Medusa at a club. I’ve met her a couple times before when covering shows, but this time she was flirting with me and I was feeling her. When we realized we were both Pisces, the attraction grew even deeper and before I knew it, she was asking me to kick it sometime. I instantly came back to reality: I’m in a very serious relationship with a man I love and cheating is cheating. I told her this and she was sweet/open enough to not be mad at it. She still shoots me texts when she has a show and I still fantasize about being intimate with a woman…

Thanks for bringing out many women’s secrets, Lex.

]]> By: Lex http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4055 Lex Tue, 10 Jun 2008 16:27:39 +0000 http://blog.latina.com/blog/2008/06/09/the-dirty-crush/#comment-4055 Lauren - wow! Thanks for the kind words -- I have to admit Latina has posted a really nice photo of me. I don't always look that glamorous in person. ;-) RE: Sonia -- she was so adorable. Perhaps I should stop by Henrietta Hudson's this weekend to see if she's there again? I swear I never had such a crush on a girl before!!!! Lauren - wow! Thanks for the kind words — I have to admit Latina has posted a really nice photo of me. I don’t always look that glamorous in person. ;-)

RE: Sonia — she was so adorable. Perhaps I should stop by Henrietta Hudson’s this weekend to see if she’s there again? I swear I never had such a crush on a girl before!!!!

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